NOPKins,
Good to see you back and thanks for the ideas. Here's my answers to your thoughts:

1) Hire a private investigator and find out what is going on with your wife. Discussed with her and our joint "Pro" marraige C. No affair.

2) Move home.-no job

3) Immediately start counseling with a pro-marriage counselor with your wife, or if she won't go, then do it by yourself.-in process

4) Get in charge of your finances. Divide up your financial obligations. Separate all checking accounts and credit cards.- will do

5) Get to know your daughter. Spend time with her. Give her time with you so that she learns who you are, not who your wife is telling her you are.- last trip went to "In-n-Out" took her to do nails and hair for formal. Took her to baller audition all when I was home. I also pick her up from school. This is a long pull.

6) Directly confront your wife about reconciling your marriage.-done

I mentioned a book to you several times. I'm still traveling and ahve yet to see it in a book store. Wil order it on Amazon.
Again Thanks



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