A few developments on which I'd value your input. The visit had been to civil until Saturday and Sunday. W unloaded again. Again back to the beginning. First, "why did you put your wedding ring back only 2 years ago?" Answer; I work in construction. Other who wore rings have fingers missing. Then came "Well when you left construction and worked in marketing services in 1990 why didn't you put it on then?" Answer; I got used to not wearing it. It wasn't until I moved away for work did I think to put it back on. Then came "You denied me sex for days (true) and gave me the silent treatment for days (true). Note: none of this has happened in the last decade. This time I served up a 180. Answer; Well the tide has tuened. Now you deny me sex but this has lasted not days but 6 months and you don't answer my calls or emails so seems to me I'm on the receiving end of the silent treatment. I may now know how you feel and I guess you know how stupid I felt. How does it feel now? She thought about that for some time and didn't answer. I then asked W do you ever think we will hold one another again? W's answer "I don't know."
Is this progress or am I beating a dead horse?


“I’ve learned what I know from defeats.”

Bobby Jones