TAG, I also think there are some successful stories that just aren't posted. Some sitchs improve and the person may have stopped posting the positive progress. After all, people come to this board generally to vent their frustrations and ask for advice with problems. No one is coming here to say how peachy keen their marriage is. I have noticed a few posters who've had their marriages improved and they seem to have vanished. I'm sure that if things were bad, they would still be here.