MrsNOP, First I'd like to convert this string to my own with a new name cause the dag garn thing won't show in favorites. Next, the controlling description came out of W's counselor who I've never met. Examples whould be W wants do do something but is afraid I won't. Or W went through some effort, i.e. bake a pie, mow the grass and I didn't appreciate it. But then from my prism; she picked the houses we've lived in. The color of cars, she even picks my clothes! Whilst away I used to give her "to do" lists and the following up made her feel controlled. To me they were basic blocking and tackling things that need doing while I'm gone. I've stopped asking now and spend my time home doing everything like today. Help?
