TAG - Re: favorites - click it once, it shows up. Click it again, it disappears. So once it shows up, never click that box again. It does work, really. I have dozens of threads in my favorites. Will add yours too
W/r/t communications w/W. I really think you are expecting too much. She has a backpack of anger she is carrying around (analogy someone else on this board gave me) and every once in a while she opens up to show you what is inside - but as of yet she is not taking anything out. Your emails and calls are probably just reinforcing some past slight. You need to back off a bit. Don't expect much and you won't be disappointed. If you are seeing an MC, you are doing a lot better than many of us whose W's won't even consider it. Focus your attention on learning as much as you can there, and on improving yourself. I don't see a lot in your thread as to goals about yourself on how you want to change. Is there nothing you see in your own actions that contributed to the sitch you are in that you think you need to work on?
