It's "O dark thirty" here in Dubai and the thought hit me "why not solicit some female opinions to start the day?" I'm trying to read the tea leaves and understand where we are in this marriage? From the string you all can see divorce in "extended" yet to me there is an eerie silence whilst I'm here on the other side of the planet. I send nice emails always asking a question to solicit a response. Example include a message how nice the weather is here and how are things back home? No response. Jewelry here is a steal and I asked if I might get something for our 15 year old (I've already bought my W a huge diamond last May) but no response. I called home yesterday around 7:30 PM California time and no answer (not unusual since caller ID shows "outside the area for a hotel card.") but no email acknowledging the call. We were to attend Marriage C upon my return but while we were together Christmaas she told me we couldn't make a 6 PM C session because our 15 year old was attending her High School formal that night at 8 PM. I sometimes think my W's whole life is our 15 year old. I can't reconcile my offer to buy jewelry so she can wear it at the formal. Now, our 15 year old is impossible to buy for, except for maybe the Ipod I bought Christmas. Nopkins- couldn't find the book at JFK so before I place my upteenth Amazon order any others you or anyone else out there might recommend? So, what do you all think? Is there a message in the silence? Should I just stay the course with "nice emails" and a few calls to leave a voicemail message? Or should I begin planning for the D coming off hold? Thanks in advance for your thoughts TAGIII
