NOPKins Q1 5'3" 150? Q2 D32 good, S31 good, D15 strained Q3 Job, or they can move here or to Europe with me. D32 is in Michigan, S31 will be in Nebraska. Both 6 hour drives. Q4 It's been 2 years, up until the D filing I've been fine. I was excited to go home and the sacrifice of living away was something I gladly did. After all the C and reading I agree that the "desire for my wife is going burning out." D15 is a real heartbreak as she is caught in middle and home with W. Other C have their own families and take a "we're not getting involved" position although D32 talks with W daily. It's kind of a role reversal. Thanks. I'm in the office tommorow morning and off to the middle east tomorrow PM. Back around the 25th. P.S. I "add this thread to my favorites but it doesn't show up why? Ciao, TAGIII