NOPKins, Q1 - No, but I'm surprised by how many people ask that question. Q2- She became a WAW after the surgery. I guess all the baggage came out then. We have a 14 year old at home, she/we are pretty religious, and she's packing on weight like there's no tomorrow. Q3 - No, although I did take a dispondent sect'y out to dinner about 12 years ago and was accussed of an A. Q4- It's in the post. We lived in LA. We bought our dream home on the ocean and I put in over $100,000 in approvements. I lost my job and the only good one I found was a return to my old company. My W has never been so happy as out there. Church counsel, ballet, she dotes over our 15 year old who is thriving out West. I was willing for them to stay and enjoy our situation and was willing to sacrifice my life for theirs..The idea was W & D15 stay in LA finish school and we move to a European assignment when D15 goes to college. Now not neccessarily back to Q1 & Q2 but she did take a job as a legal secty. She's never done it before and has really excelled to the point that she may feel more appreciated at work than at home. They work her hard. I've heard that when you are in an emotional pickle like surgery, hormones, and "victim" and it all surfaces at once the victim attacks those closest not the 9 to 5 emotionally detached. That's about it, Thanks, TAGIII
