Corri wrote {{ when I do go to bed, he'll say to me in the dark, "how about a blow job?" No touches, no kisses, no hugs}}
As you might know my W says some crude things to me about my motivation for doing some of the things I do, but nothing like that.
The first thing that came to my mind was how bad that hurt your feelings and why aren't there better boundaries between you two. I also thought that you should have said something like "Hay, how many girls did you pick up with that line while in Jr high?" "Most girls I know like a little kissing and romance before they get down and dirty" "Better luck next time." Tell your H you do not go fron 0 to 60 without a lot of warming up first.
{{The only way out is for me to grab the wheel and pick up the R-Badge. At least, that's what it seems. Something's missing... and that is what I am pondering}}
Sounds like where I am. I am setting limits on what I will take from my W and letting her feel good or bad. That is up to her how she feels about my limits.
Thanks for the help you gave me in one of your previous posts. I have used it a couple of times and even got lucky once since then.
