I wonder if it's profitable to analyze sexual fantasies for meaning in the same way dreams can be analyzed? My sexual fantasy last night starred a character I shall call "suit-Dad". One time when I was watching my son play pee-wee t-ball, a father of one of the other kids arrived at the game. All of the other dads were dressed in casual gear, but this dad was wearing a very sharp suit. I guess it was just the contrast in appearance that attracted me and caused me to add him to my fantasy line-up.
In my fantasy last night, Suit-Dad and I are all dressed up ( I think CinemaNymph's high heel post must have affected me) and having dinner at a restaurant, as we leave the table he places his hand on the small of my back in a sort of sexual yet protective/possessive gesture and I am thoroughly aroused. Why did I choose to fantasize about Suit-Dad last night rather than my H?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
