Sex with Snoopy does not sound appealing. But if he's truly a happy, carefree spirit in that dance-y place then ML with him might be very nice indeed. Think of the wild man of the forest, unfettered, totally in touch with his wild, as well as his tender, soul. Now THAT's what I'm talkin' 'bout...
The goofy thing clearly appeals to some. MY DIL (whom we just visited over Christmas) says that her H (my late H's son) was a virgin when they married. She was not, and she had been engaged to someone else. She said on their wedding night, she came into the room in a white negligee, all ready for romancing. He came into the room naked, except for a pair of shorts. Written on the front of them, with an arrow pointing down were the words: "This Bud's for you." (His nickname is Bud.) She said to me: "I realized 'this is what the rest of my life is going to be like.'" She seems okay with it. They're devoted to each other. I don't know what their sex life is like now (obviously), but she talks often about how good life with him has been. They'll be married 20 years next year. Maybe he's still goofy in the bedroom and it's okay with her. Or maybe he has grown up. Don't know. I will add that neither he nor my DIL has an introspective bone in his or her respective body. In my next life I'm going to ask that the introspection gene be left out of me, too. I think I would be happier without it, or if I were unhappy, I wouldn't know it.
