I think that there's something about a long term relationship that brings out the regressed, immature side of a person. I do think I would become stronger being on my own, but is that really strength? It's like going to a spa to lose weight and then coming home again.
I do feel there is meaning in struggle and if you keep a sense of purpose then it becomes a lot easier. I don't mean becoming a martyr...it's about working toward achieving a vision that's important to you. This is why I haven't given up.
