JJ wrote {{Obviously there is something about your relationship that makes you willing to work hard at "fixing" the sex part in order to maintain it........ Maybe there is enough of something in this relationship that you are willing to keep working on the relationship}}
Good post JJ. I think this is why many of us DBers stay and do the work we do.
LP, I wish I had something to help you in your situation. Would you or BF go for living in seperate houses 1 or 2 days a week to reduce the fusion ( or stale mate) between you two so he gets the seriousness of your frustrations? Would he try more things out of his comfort zone if he did not have your availability everyday?
OG Lou {{"but you want it to be hard, don't you?".}} My first thought too.
