Being "in love".

[MJontheMend]

I should add that when I said you will be "ready to move on", I didn't mean that you would literally be compelled to exit the house or marriage. I just meant that you would be ready to move on emotionally without feelings of bitterness, resentment, misery or self-loathing. It doesn't matter whether your philosophy allows divorce as long as it is truly your philosophy. For instance, if you stop being angry at your spouse for being trapped in a sexless marriage and start being mad at the Pope, you need to question your integrity in regards to your religion.(You might think I have it easier being some sort of neo-pagan/secular humanist but that isn't true because I have the exhausting task of deciding for myself what my "rules" are regarding sex, marital fidelity or divorce etc. etc. The Goddess of Fertility, Bertrand Russell, Jesus, Freud, Bessie Smith, the members of this BB, Buddha, Thomas Jefferson, assorted feminists, my Grandmother, hundreds of novelists and a myriad of others are debating endlessly amongst themselves in my brain as I try to make these decisions with integrity.)