I will write about it in my own thread but this is what I recently tried to describe to my H when I told him that it is nice for me to delight in looking at him. I love looking across the room and feeling a sexual charge (that rockstar groupie thing JJ). He seemed to hear this without feeling pressured or anything and even seemed to understand it. I thought about this next part but didn't say it to him - The point that it becomes problematic is when I expand that to feeling disappointed when he doesn't also look across the room, meet my eyes and feel the same. That is fusion. I am working on allowing myself to experience sexual pleasure in small ways just because I do not because he does too.
