I had sent my e-mail to G earlier and he still feels I am being rather unclear and not direct enough. His closing statement:
SERIOUSLY -- DON'T BEAT AROUND THE BUSH. SAY WHAT YOU WANT AND WHEN YOU WANT IT. STATE IT PLAINLY. REMEMBER HE IS AN ENGINEER WE DON'T DO INFERENCES GOOD
So based on some of his input, some of it is unprintable.
Here is my e-mail again. My aim is to be respectful and to the point.
Hi D,
I signed a blank transfer and mailed it to your A's office, Attn: T on Tuesday March 8. I do not have the horse info to fill in. I left a signed transfer and the forms to send for a duplicate registration on Lucy at the house on PK. I put them on your desk in August, after I received the divorce papers.
I had no way of knowing what your thoughts were on the house. We have not discussed it. What are your plans for the house?
If you are not comfortable interacting with me directly, I am open to using a third party as a go between. If you agree, who do you suggest? If dad doesn't mind doing it and dealing with me, I have no problem with him.
I personally would prefer you go ahead and buy me out of PK. We could write up a statement listing the amount and stating you don't have to pay me till the house is sold, sign it and have it notarized. Because my share is a set amount it would be up to you what you want to do and the time frame you do it in on the house. Not because I don't want to deal with you; but I still have an emotional attachment to the house. It would be difficult for me to deal closely with seeing it sold.
Please let me know what you think on the house and that you received the transfer for Lucy.
I really do not see a need for more money to be spent on attorney fees as I feel if we can find a way to communicate with one another we can settle what is left to be done.
Thanks,
Pam
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"