B has had no more spells but still isn't eating well and very weak. Slow process it seems for her to recoop.
Quote: The last sentence is confusing. Something like "I have sent more than one e-mail to you on the topic but haven't received any response."
I like this.
Quote: why not replace this with something like: "how would you like to move forward with this? If you're not comfortable interacting with me directly, I am open to using a third party as a go between. If you agree, who do you suggest? I'm sure my father would agree if you would be comfortable with that. "
I like this also, although it is his dad I was suggesting not mine and I always call his dad, dad not mine so he would know who I mean.
Quote: ok...be careful though...are you admitting that you have been dragging your feet? or were you trying to say "I think it would be difficult for me to deal with this on a day to day basis."?
No, not to dragging my feet but that I don't want to have to work to get the house ready to sell and deal with the realtor and offers or any of that stuff to see the house sold. It is emotional for me and not something I feel would be good for me in my endeavor to heal. He on the other hand hasn't even lived in that house for almost 2 years so I would not expect it to bother him.
Quote: OUCH. I would definitely leave this paragraph out.
Honest that wasn't meant as any sort of dig but more of an explaination of why I didn't think it would be difficult for him to see the house sold.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"