Hey Ms. Pam! How's Breeze doing?

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Hi D,

I signed a blank transfer and sent it to your A's office to T's attention. I don't have the horse info to fill in as I left all of that on your desk before I moved out of the house. It was there with the papers that were filed out to send for her duplicate registration.




This is good!

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I have no way of knowing what your plans are for the house as I haven't heard anything from you on it. The e-mails I have sent haven't been responded to that I have received.




The last sentence is confusing. Something like "I have sent more than one e-mail to you on the topic but haven't received any response."

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If it is something you just can't discuss with me would you want to use Dad as a go between if he doesn't mind? I have no problem with Dad if he doesn't have a problem with me. Or I could ask G to be a go between for us if you like. I don't think he would mind doing that to help us out.




hmmmm...G? that seems like an awkward idea!

why not replace this with something like: "how would you like to move forward with this? If you're not comfortable interacting with me directly, I am open to using a third party as a go between. If you agree, who do you suggest? I'm sure my father would agree if you would be comfortable with that. "

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I personally would prefer you just go ahead and buy me out with my offer of not having to pay me till the house is sold. Not because I don't want to deal with you, but because the house still has an emotional attachment for me and I'm sure will have for a while yet.




ok...be careful though...are you admitting that you have been dragging your feet? or were you trying to say "I think it would be difficult for me to deal with this on a day to day basis."?

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My C says probably the reason you hadn't reacted as I expected over B or the other dogs is you have already detached and disassociated with them prior to the divorce and it is ground that I have to cover now. So I assume you probably no longer have the emotional attachment to PK that I do and it won't be difficult for you to see it sold as it will be for me.




OUCH. I would definitely leave this paragraph out.

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Please let me know what you think as I really don't see a need here for more money to be spent on attorney fees.




Sounds good!

Sage


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