January: Chapter 1 in the New Beginning

[psluke]

Ok, the aim is to be firm, fairly direct but still myself, not too emotional but honest about my feelings and non accusing or difficult.

Input requested.

Hi D,

I signed a blank transfer and sent it to your A's office to T's attention. I don't have the horse info to fill in as I left all of that on your desk before I moved out of the house. It was there with the papers that were filed out to send for her duplicate registration.

I have no way of knowing what your plans are for the house as I haven't heard anything from you on it. The e-mails I have sent haven't been responded to that I have received.

If it is something you just can't discuss with me would you want to use Dad as a go between if he doesn't mind? I have no problem with Dad if he doesn't have a problem with me. Or I could ask G to be a go between for us if you like. I don't think he would mind doing that to help us out.

I personally would prefer you just go ahead and buy me out with my offer of not having to pay me till the house is sold. Not because I don't want to deal with you, but because the house still has an emotional attachment for me and I'm sure will have for a while yet.

My C says probably the reason you hadn't reacted as I expected over B or the other dogs is you have already detached and disassociated with them prior to the divorce and it is ground that I have to cover now. So I assume you probably no longer have the emotional attachment to PK that I do and it won't be difficult for you to see it sold as it will be for me.

Please let me know what you think as I really don't see a need here for more money to be spent on attorney fees.

Thanks,
Pam