Hi Zoo,

We will see what next year brings.

I think it might be easier to not have the anger if I had saved my marriage versus she won.

I bet I don't hear from D. Talking with my present A's wife last night she said he probably won't want to give me a set amount of money as he doesn't know what he is going to have to spend or what he will actually get for the house.

I just thought he might be glad not to have to work with me and to be able to do what he wants with the house. It just feels in a way us being together on the house sort of keeps us both tied to the past and I would definitely think he would want to move on with a possible marriage and all in his future. Heck, I don't have ANYONE in my future and even I feel a need to move forward


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"