Hi Martha - Absolutely I was assuming Fortunately I caught myself, guess I'm still in that consciously-competent phase - just waiting for the time when the negative thoughts do not even enter my mind!

It was a so-so weekend, NG decided he had to do some work on Saturday, which left me more than a little miffed as I was left sorting through our bank papers by myself. I've noticed lately that there is resentment building inside me regarding the share of 'our' work that I end up doing. I don't want to feel resentful, but am not yet comfortable just neglecting errands (which is a talent NG has in abundance) Asking him to pitch in has not worked. Thoughts anyone

I'm aiming for a super week, resentments notwithstanding. Slowly

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