I've been reading here and there, but not posting much. Decided to change my M.O. today...
Quote: But yes, at some time, I do believe it will be my job to raise the issue of what I want. NG is nowhere near ready for this though, IMO.
Now that I'm reading a book H2H recommended (What Could He Be Thinking), I am now able to see this one differently.
Does asking for what you want from him mean that he has to do the same in kind? This isn't meant to be a daft question, but one that is wondering if this is a dynamic that works well for you?
Do both of you have to be ready to take the same step at the same time?
Quote: In the meantime, I'm letting him see my daily worries and vulnerabilities with everyone and everything else, and he is doing a great job stepping up to being supportive.
Wow! A year ago you wouldn't have been able to say this. This is really big and wonderful stuff!
Keep up the great job, Slowly. You're doing just fine.
Hugs!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
