What you say makes sense Of course, to me, its just normal conversation. By the way, he asks me more questions than I do of him - so I guess I'm feeling out of sorts on that... But, I get the message, don't pin him down, give him more space. I'll negotiate for more space for myself too
An interesting 180 in our lives. Yesterday, we had to run an errand in a part of town that was unfamiliar. Normally, once we get in the car, its my 'job' to open the map and navigate. This time, NG got the map before I could even settle down - a very pleasant surprise - he plotted the route and all. (it was longer than one I would have taken, but I was happy just to go along with his suggestion )
I find the more I let go, the more I'm enjoying life Slowly