Hi Jennifer - Its grand to see you in this neck of the woods again
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Could you clarify one thing? When NG said he had to run to a meeting, then you met for lunch anyway, how did that come about? Did you assume that his meeting meant no lunch, and it didn't mean that at all? Or did he arrange his schedule at the last minute to accommodsate his promise of lunch? And if you did indeed have lunch together as planned, why were you still upset (on into dinner)?

Its actually his manner of communicating in vague terms - he never used to be this way before the a. Its a style he has cultivated, to say as ittle as possible to maximise wiggle room. Sooo, when he says he is off on a meeting, then turns up for lunch, assuming I'll be available, it annoys me that I am available That particular day, I was just looking forward to some 'me' time, so yes, I was available. It just put me in a mood for the rest of the day, bad dbing, I know.

Here is my dilemma - I'm very happy GAL, which I gather left him lonely, and ripe for ow's attention. Its at the center of my fear of doing my own thing too much - how sad is that?

Slowly

A Liberal Allowance of Time