Well, I’m one OW who didn’t do the pursuing. If I’d really intended to “reel” someone in I’d have picked a much better target – single, no kids, and a great deal richer. *sigh*
I’ve also seen so many married men hit on both me and my girlfriends (without any encouragement, I may add) that I can say from my own personal experience that it is usually the man who initiates, not the woman. Experiences may vary.
Slowly --- you say you had a blast going out together. Do you do this often? Like, at least once a week? Do you feel more “connected” to each other when you do, and is it something you could work into your routine more often?
