You know, my H thinks that OW 1 is some swell person and they had a 'deep connection' and all that. Well, when we had our somewhat R talk on Christmas day, one of the things I mentioned was that OW 1 HAD been manipulative. I know, I saw her emails to him and his to her, and she WAS supposed to be a friend, remember. H also reiterated that they only became physical after he 'finished' with me (ie, dropped the bomb). When I pointed out that he had cultivated 'deep' connections with both OW before he said a thing to me, and that it constituted 'laying the foundations' for PAs, he agreed. Said he hadn't thought of it that way, but he supposed so.
I didn't belabour the point, but I think the penny dropped for him, somehow.
I am now adopting some of the guerrila seduction tactics that these two OW used to reel my H in...
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
