I actually do ask for what I want, but he says that he feels pressurized then. Oy!
Slowly, as your username implies - we have to go slowly (but surely, 'eh!). I keep telling myself to have patience, and I am not famous for that, so it is a learning thing for me.
I still wonder if it's all worth it though.
BTW, thanks for posting on my thread. I get so little time to come on the bb, that I don't post very often on others, although I do read many of the posts - and learn a lot from them.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim