Way to go, NG! It's really important to allow our partners to go out there and fight for us once in a while - I recall Maya's sitch, when her H was getting angry at her family over TG dinner - it allows them an opportunity to show Hey, I can take care of you. I'm having "taking care of" issues in my own sitch, and I know how being taken care of can really fill that tank.
It's letting them take care of you the way THEY need to that's hard sometimes. Nice that you could let him, and that he did, and that everyone was behind you.
Wow, things are going well over here (despite the sniffles )
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