I think he sees a difference in my reactions too, a couple of years ago, I would have responded to some of the unfairness, this time, I stayed detached and let him deal with it, and he came through more than I could have ever expected.
This makes all the difference in the world. In a way, you even db'ed them with this one. I wonder how the relatives or if the relatives notice changes in you.
I have wondered if I am becoming less controlling in other areas of my life.
