After my 'Honey, I'm busy, figure it out with your friends' remark, NG cancelled his away trip this week, and is working from home, as well as being there for our visitors. Yesterday, I had to go to a meeting late afternoon, and then went on to the pub to wish a dear colleague goodbye, together with everyone else from work. When I got home at around 8, with dinner, NG was on the interrogation non-stop. This time, I really listened to what his questions were really about - this chap is worried; if it was not so sad, it would be funny
But, it is the most attention I've had from NG in over a week. Makes me think I should do more of what works, and get out with friends more often.
Question for the tribal elders - should I be addressing his hidden concerns, or just take his questions at face value and move on, as I answered them all at face value?
