I think even HD identified people have to ask themselves about their sexual preferences. They don't have to ask themselves the question "Do I like sex?" because they know the answer. They do need to ask themselves the question "How much do I like sex?" over and over again if necessary. For instance, I now know that I like sex better than eating cookies but less than meeting my responsibilities towards my children. I also know that I'm going to have to get a little more specific than this in order to make progress.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
