Being a guy reading this I wanted to comment. My WAW did not like our sex life, I was horny, she was not. We would try for once a week to satisfy me, but her lieing there as I push in and out was not very good. There was no passion. Now I am separtated, that is what I long for.( passion) I do not understand why a man would not be interested in his wife. That was one of the reasons I did not marry young. (I married at 30) I never thought I could find one person that could hold my interest for the long term. Sex is very important in a relationship and should be respectful and mutual. I only wish mine could have been better. As for the guy at home when the wife gets dressed up and goes out....was I out of my head, (did not do anything bad) just could not sleep, eat, and breathing was difficult. The mind races to thoughts of the worst possible solution. I will stop here but I think woman are great, beatiful, deserve great respect, and oh ya, sexy. R :