Absolutely I have a very hard time feeling sexy/attractive when my H doesn't seem to want anything to do with me sexually. I've explained this to him time and time again.
I finally had to really lay things on the line for him and tell him how not feeling sexy/attractive affects other things in my life too...how I interact with him, my self-esteem, self-confidence etc.
After a year of working on things he's finally really starting to make some progress on trying to make me feel sexy. No, he doesn't just jump my bones (yet)...but he's becoming for physically affectionate....which a year ago I felt he avoided me like the freaking plague!
