Aside from the lingerie, I do all of those things. I've even tried the lingerie route with no results. I want to look the best that I can for ME:) And I do get looks from other men...just not from the man I want to look at me with desire.
My H and I have been together for over 5 years now (married for 2.5), and he has never ever wakened me because he was horny - not even in the morning. I have not experienced this in any other relationship. I can truly say that he's been really passionate when ML twice in our relationship (0 times since being married), and he was drunk both times. He loves to touch as long as it isn't intimate touching. He has been dutiful about ML once a week, so my sitch isn't as bad as many; he also takes out the trash once a week with the same level of enthusiasm.
I'm seriously thinking abouting going back to our first C on my own; I do need some help dealing with all of this.
