During one convo with my H, I actually offered to research if there was a female equivalent of saltpeter. Thankfully my H didn't take me seriously. He did sort of bring up the same topic in our convo yesterday. He suggested that if we had a trial separation, I might come to realize that I could get by with less sex, but then he indicated that he knew that this was an unreasonable expectation and he added that he would be able to tell if I was just pretending to not want to have sex because I'm not a very good actress.

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver