Thanks Corri, and thanks, lilliepearl for sharing your view. I am nothing if not persistent. I will do my best to save this marriage for my daughter's sake and for my sake. There may come a time when it will be time for us to split...it may be after the first MC session. It may be later.
It may be never.
Remember, Lillie, the great thing about hitting your head repeatedly against a brick wall is how good it feels when you stop.