Hey guys...been on the phone with her for the last hour. We finally agreed to try to find a counselor. Phew. It wasn't an easy agreement, either....we were both threatening to leave, accusing the other of yes, wanting a divorce more than wanting a sex life.

And no, Nopkins, I'm not ignoring you, in fact I'm taking it all in, and yes, fighting for my family.

I'm wrung out.

Hairdog