HD wrote to annette: ------------------ I'm trying to figure out how an agreement to reasonable visitation (something which a court would probably order anyway) is "giving up."
Yeah, I can tell her that I'll fight for her and for DD3, but what she wants me to do is give up my hope for a sex life. Some fight. ------------------
Come, on HD. Talk to me or tell me to pi$$ off.
You can't think forward for your wife, regardless of how well you know her.
I am going to tell you something about yourself. You already know it, and my telling it will probably make you mad. If I didn't think it vital for your marriage, and I didn't like you, I would ignore it.
The same way you are avoiding me while I am all in your 'face', is the same thing that is causing a train wreck in your marriage.
Your wife needs your strength, regardless of the outcome. YOU need to exercise your strength because it will address issues for yourself in this marriage, or potentially in a future one.
You are good guy. You can have a good marriage if you want to.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
