Just had another call with her. She said she had called her old employer in Columbia and wanted to know if I would fight her on the move, assuming that DD3 would come with her. I told her I would have to get back to her on that.

This led to her telling me how much she hates KC, has no friends, support system, etc. Which led to the discussion that she has done more than enough to work for the relationship. Which led to the discussion that my expectations were too high concerning sex.

And on and on. She finally said that she would see a counselor with me, but that this time I had better listen to her (referring to her view that I didn't listen to the last counselor, which I think is wrong...our MC didn't really tell us anything worthy, except that I should be patient.)

H: Are you going to look for the counselor this time? Oh, and by "her" I'm sure your planning to get a female counselor because, of course, male counselor's opinions on this issue have no validity.

W: I'm hanging up now.

And she did.

Hairdog