hdog... I'm sure all of us reading your convos with W felt the hair stand up on the backs of our necks! I agree with whoever said they've never seen someone dig their heels in like she does. She sounds more stubborn and resistant than any of the resistant partners on this board. I wonder what on earth she is gaining by being this way. Pride is one thing... but this is off the chart.
I'm going to go on record as saying, "I think it's time for you to move to the basement and start looking for an apartment in the neighborhood."
I just had to say it, to get it off my chest.
As hp says, she seems to be baiting you. You're like a tethered bear that she comes at periodically to get a rise out of you. Maybe it's time to break the tether.