Hairy,
Did you ever notice the pattern here? Maybe you should point it out to her..

She initiates a sex conversation in which she blames you for her unwillingness to compromise. You take it all in..sputter out a few of your ideas..she shuts you down and it's all over.
Then a few days or a week elapses and she baits you into saying that you love her...or reassuring her in some way that you still love her and find her attractive.

She ALWAYS comes back at you for this reassurance.

What can you do with this information?

HP