Quote: I've thought a bit more about the "school marm and recalcitrant student" comment from Ms.Nop yesterday. It really hit the target. I absolutely need to stop taking her crap and asking for more. I need to resolve to be pleasant but not subservient.
I've been pondering the "I'll keep saying no until you're comfortable with it" aspect of this.
I realized when I would be comfortable with it.
When I no longer gave a diddle-squat about the marriage or my relationship.
