Ditto on the amount of tv having an inverse correlation to the amount of nookie. H "needs the tv to relax" in the evening. However, his "relaxation" doesn't lead to sex. H recently acknowedged that it is easier on vacation. He says it is also easier on weekends. The day that we ML at least twice every weekend I will believe that.

Just like I will believe Mrs. HD the day that your consistent "good behavior" of not initiating, not sighing when turned down, having ex Mrs out of town on vacation etc... causes Mrs. HD to initiate sex. In other words, I'm sure her conditions have been met at various times more than the twice/year that sex occurs in the HH. What does she say about that?

Karen, who is frequently a wuss also