Thanks for you thoughtful reply, GEL. I have asked her this before, and she has responded be saying that she tries to have "sexy thoughts." That's about it. I think the last time I asked her about it was maybe 6 months ago. We all know what she's doing to "work on it." She's avoiding it, putting me off, and, when confronted, she blames me for her lack of interest.
I totally agree with you that I need to nail her down on the specifics: what she's doing to work on it; what specifically she plans to do to remedy a situation that, short of forcible rape, I can do nothing about; and when she plans to do these things.
Last night she came home late (I didn't ask her why). I had given DD3 a bath, for which W thanked me. We watched "24" together, sitting side by side on our couch in our new furniture arrangement. Went to bed at 10. Nothing particularly noteworthy. Honestly, I chose not to confront her on anything because I really wanted to catch the 2-hour episode of my favorite TV show! And, after it was over, I was kind of wrung out, as I usually am after watching it.
