I think I'm going to have to disagree with you, Paul. I have asked her many times what it would take for her to have a sexual relationship with me. She has said: 1) you have to be comfortable with me saying "no", 2) if I just relax, it will happen, 3) if she didn't have to "deal" with my ex-wife, it would happen, so she suggests moving away from my kids, etc. The other response, when I ask what SHE is doing toward getting more comfortable with being sexual with me, is that she is "working on it." Just vague enough to be worthless and off-putting.
No, Paul, I think I need to be a ball-buster, just like she is.
I am very happy for you that you seem to be meeting some measure of success. Keep it up, my friend.
