WB,
She sounds really immature in her approach to sex. Almost as if she thinks it's all a big joke. I can somewhat see how she would think that..it seems that every other sitcom out there is making one inane joke about sex after another, but come on!

Have you ever just outright asked her what her intent is when she does that? Not in an antagonistic way but just "You know, W, I'm not sure what you mean by that..are you initiating sex?"

I find that a lot of LD people are loathe to own their own sexual feelings and prefer instead to shove it all off on their partner...Oh OKAY, I will give in to you but ONLY because you want it so much.

And this happens coincidentally around their period every single month or whatever!

Hang in there, I am feeling a new empathy and kindness towards you since you are my H's long lost twin.