It's amazing the parallels between us. I actually found myself yesterday saying that I want to leave as a result of our lack of intimacy. Her immediate response was to start talking about moving to a larger house, albeit in the same neighborhood. Anything to change the subject.
Also, W found me at the computer a couple times this past week, while I was checking out the posts here. She asked me what I was doing and I said, "Oh, nothing." I will eventually tell her vaguely what I am doing, but for now I'll keep her guessing.
We are addicted to our sans-intimacy marriages, not the SSM board. The Board merely encourages us not to put up with too much crap. I loved the quote, "You get what you put up with."
