I know its torture not having any contact for 19 days, but try and avoid the temptation for you to make the 1st move in any future contact. Your H will sooner or later start to think that you’re GAL without him and will become curious.
My sitch is pretty much bottomed out right now, she loves me deeply, wants contact forever with her best friend, etc, etc and although it is great for dbing its killing me with the so near but so farness of the sitch. I am setting myself a goal today of no contact for a min of 7 days, I’m going to try and avoid all calls and emails and make up some excuse, the reason being is that she has to miss me and experience this OM, its tough and we will remain friends but if she has the best parts of me, the friendship when she wants it then I feel it is going to prolong getting rid of the resident alien!!
I hope your H does contact you soon to relieve your pain and I’m sure it won’t be so rosy on his side, just try and hang on!! You’ve done tremendously staying away for that amount of time; you’re a tough cookie indeed!!
PS I take it all the expert advice on how you should see that it is over is coming from Family, Family in Law & Friends, well we know over here that they don’t know S*%t !!
