Oh yea, I learned my lesson BIG TIME. NO more mrs. fix-it. Apparently less is more to him, and instesd of him appreciating my efforts to make his life as easy as possible, he felt like he had to seek someone to help. Again, I don't think that is a long term strategy for a relationship. The helping thing on the scale that they now have is gotta be a relationship killer after awhile. I now know how to balance it, I think. No slaying of dragons every wek, but hey -can you please fix this vaccuum for me??? I do think the divorce will still happen.I don't want it, don't need it, and will still try to avoid it. And for all I say on here, you all know that I still love him.
