Very emotional weekend. I found all the emails and that H has been carrying on with OW since he moved home. He says he has tried to break it off a couple of times. Remember he works with her in a very small office. What confuses me so much is at first when he moved home it was tough. But after several months things were better, even great at times. H clearly was not miserable at home. Our S life was very active, we did family things, went home to New England for christmas and were even planning to buy a second vacation home. So can he really be in love with two women. Anyway back to the events of this weekend. He says its over with OW this time and he doesnt want to lose me. Says he will do everything to prove it to me. So on Saturday H talk to OW and tell him he has to get out and look for apartment. Then in the early morning of Sunday H gets up and is begging me to give it one more try. Tells me he will do anything to prove it to me. Show cell phone records, emails etc etc. He says hes not leaving because he is going to show me that its finally over with OW. Sunday morning OW calls and H tell me about it. He just said to her "I cant talk right now". Hangs up and shuts his phone off for the remainder of the day. Now this is really big with H. He has been addicted to the phone and calling her etc etc. Not returning the phone call to OW definetly sends the message. This morning H turns on cell phone and says he has 5 messages. H and I leave for work and H says to me not to worry. H sends me a copy of email he send to OW saying it is over finally and they need to get on with their own lives.. Now when I was so angry yesterday I sent email to OW in which I forwarded to her a copy of an email H just sent me this week telling me how sorry he is for everything and how he is looking forward to spending the rest of our lives together. I told H I did it so . OW call me this morning and leaves a message.. I am so sorry I caused so much pain to you and your family, I am a victim here. If I knew the things I now know I never would have done it etc etc. So H has cut if off,, will it be for good this time. H evidently was telling OW something totally different.. like he was waiting for right time to tell me etc etc. Do you think OW really thought we werent having S for the last 6 months. How could anyone be so naive. Remember H didnt have to move home 6 months ago he chose to come home. OW says she told him to go and try to make it work in the marriage because if he didnt he would never know. So she must of though he tried and failed and was waiting to move back out. So now I have to wait and see. Is it really over? OW is angry today but just she will calm down and probably want him back... maybe not. Will this now truly end. I quess I have to wait and see Its been quite a rollercoaster ride
